Can't argue with most of that. Personally I couldn't care less what other people think of my choices, not their life, not their business. I guess my main gripe with all dating apps is that they are list sites (people's imagined lists of necessaries) and I have a physical trait, I'm very short, that leads to almost automatic left swipes. Perfectly happy being single, and I'm not an easy match (would prefer a woman with higher than a 135 IQ, and/or significant creative or artistic interests/accomplishments) so there's my possibly self-defeating list;)