Given the degree of hostility here and the apparent fact that you are sleeping with men you don't know and trust well, I'm not surprised that you encounter a lot of dickheads. OK, maybe this was meant to be funny or satirical, didn't get to either place for me. I don't get laid much, or at all. Probably due to the fact that I have to have real feelings about another person to enjoy the experience and the fact that most women don't think I'm attractive. Fortunate you, evidently any number of guys thing you are attractive;)