I may be funny but as my old business partner would say, “Looks aren’t everything”;) Female MT, male trainer, his upper arms are almost as big as my thighs. Great guy though, very knowledgeable and his former husband is a PT and gives him advice on how to work with me. I was a pretty expert skier, haven’t gone for the last four years, was spooked about the instability in my lower back (spondylosis L-5, 5mm displacment). Now that’s all encrusted w new bone, not to mention the rods and screws, just saw my surgeon for the one year follow up and he said go ahead. I’m going to be very careful, just want to get up there and feel the wind on my face.