I’m sure not. First, I know a lot of women in their 40s 50s and 60s and not one of them is a “little old lady’”. But second, It’s possible, even probable that she created the family, or cared for the kids,or cares for the parents in their 80s and 90s. Families take care of members who are dependent, even when the cost is considerable. I guess what I am saying is that things are changing and we should give each other a little break.