This may be the “root” of the problem. Few, if any people with whom you wanted to have sex, people who were sensitive and empathetic and sensual, would be trying to impress you with braggadocio. Now, the guys with the great looks and perhaps big wallets, the guys who will always have another woman “coming along”, they may be looking to “close the deal” with a misplaced boast or two. It’s all in the selection criteria;)