This strongly suggests that you objectify men in much the same way that they objectify you. Why would you be interested in a guy that you could only approach with difficulty? Absent some sort of interaction is there some other explanation for the attraction than his looks, money, status? I can be physically attracted to a woman, but only in the most superficial way until I talk to her, find out whether there is anybody really in there. Of course finding out that she is adventurous, has a good attitude, has a sharp and curious mind are true markers of attractiveness. Don’t really care if she knows what a hair dryer is for.