We’re not talking about wanted children within a committed couple, we have been talking about hookup sex, sex for conquest, sex for pleasure, irresponsible men, irresponsible women, though it is true that committed couples who want children also choose abortion from time to time. You clearly have a personal ax to grind which you are keeping pretty well hidden, possibly a pregnancy that you didn’t want to terminate, possibly a parental financial responsibility that you didn’t want or that came without the chance of your parental participation. All of these are risks taken on when you have sex, all are matters of law that men should familiarize themselves with before participating. Sad though that you can’t discuss this with out profane personal attacks, attacks the truth of which you can’t possibly know.