When my older brother got married her grandmother pulled our grandmother aside and said, “OH my, he picked the sour one”. Never a more true sentence was spoken. She promptly drove our entire family away, then after their kids had grown and left the house started alienating them too. Never before saw a family where the parents weren’t speaking to this kid, then that one, then the other one who was still speaking to the first one, lather, rinse and repeat. He called me last week to say they were divorcing, she had forbade him to go to church, ultra conservative fundamentalist denomination where they met, he finally went anyway and started getting texts in the pews that she had called a lawyer. Haven’t heard another word, he’s still not officially speaking to me…possibly she’s killed him and eaten him.