Why start your post with such a ridiculous and more importantly, unsupportable claim? Why make so many unsupportable claims in general? Do you follow me into the shower to see what I wash? Can you read my mind to find out what I think of plantation weddings? Obviously not, in either case. It’s no doubt cathartic to vent, certainly it’s one way to draw eyeballs and claps, it also obscures the light that you could be directing on your experience while turning up the heat on the prejudices that drive us apart.